Ever woken up confused about the sex dream you saw at night? Before you conclude, the type was a sign that you should divorce or that your boyfriend is flirting with another, there is something Ian Wallace, a psychologist, dream expert and author of "The Complete A To Z Dictionary Of Dreams: Be Your Own Dream Expert â?, you think you should know: Sexual dreams have nothing to do with sex. Here's what they really mean:
When you betray your spouse
A dream like this often expresses a hidden lack of faith, but not in your marriage. "It means that the dreamer is losing confidence in her appealing potential and is experiencing something in life that is making her less confident in herself," says WWallace. It could be a failure at work, or a familiar one, a superhero in super form, questioning everything. Wallace says that is a sign that you are seeking more approval from those around you.
Having gay sex when you're hetero
"You have started to feel very good about your body and have become tolerant of what you believe in, your morals and your values as a human being." But not only that. Wallace says this may be a reflection of your exploration side, seeking to discover more as a mum, wife, and employee.
Sex with a faceless man
"The face symbolizes identity, so if the person in front of you has no face, it means you are constantly challenged by something in life that you have not yet discovered," says Wallace. In other words, it is a call to look closely at something that annoys you but bypasses it so you can fix it.
Sex with your closest friend
Wallace says that fantasies like these go away when your friend has a personality trait that you admire. You see? No problems. Of course until there is no change of feeling between you.
Goes through a real orgasm
If there is a feeling that you are going through an orgasm, it may be because you are close to experiencing it physically, according to studies. It's not just about men. Experts say that women also experience bodily changes during the REM phase, increased vaginal lubrication, increased clitoris, which can lead to excitement. And if the sex dream coincides with that time, you feel pleasure.
Sex with a coworker who can't stand it
You're very jealous of this person's talent or ability, and you don't feel good about him shining while you don't, according to Wallace.
Sex with Bradley Cooper
Or Beckham. Or the former Leon. In addition to the possibility that you may be dreaming of having had a lifetime of having sex with a celebrity, Wallace says that these dreams signal that you, like many celebrities, are very much a lady in a particular field. of life and you have the opportunity to gain even more power from it. Blessed are you ... and Bradley!
